This week Elements is starting back up. Elements is a gathering here in Chicago around ideas that matter. This month’s gathering is with Clementine Ford and is 7pm at Roscoe’s here in Chicago. Click here for more information.
The theme this month is identity and to prepare I wrote the below post.
There is nothing more core to the human experience than identity. The ability to see ourselves at once a part of the world and yet separate from everyone else in it, is at the heart of the human experience. Our identity drives us, shapes us, is the deepest experience of ourselves and yet far too often it is a poor reflection of who we really are.
My wife and I were just talking this weekend about how funny identity can be. We were both sharing ways in which we view ourselves. We were talking about areas of brokenness and places that caused us pain. But the way the other saw us was radically different from the way we saw ourselves. Our self-identity was wrong from our true identity.
This is what makes identity so interesting. Identity is not who we actually are, it is how we see in ourselves.
Far too often we determine our identity by looking in the broken and dirty mirrors that surround us. We are constantly surrounded by mirrors; our families, friends, society, religious system, they all are mirrors that we look into to get another reflection of ourselves and yet these mirrors do not offer perfect images. They are distorted, cracked, and foggy. The image that they provide is not who we really are.
What mirrors are you looking in to determine your identity? In what ways have they reflected back to you a distorted picture of yourself? What distortions or cracks do you believe to be true about you?
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